Opposites attract. If two people just alike get married, one of you is unnecessary. ~ Larry Burkett
You’d like to travel, he doesn’t. You thrive on change, but he’s stuck like glue to what’s been done before.
You have not been thrilled with this situation.
What do you do about changing it? Can you change it?
More than once, I’ve heard my husband describe our relationship to others this way: ‘Whenever I need to know what Mel wants to do in a certain situation, I think about what I would want ~ and do the opposite.’
His words always seem to amuse those listening, but express a truth that’s been frustrating for me to live with for most of my married life.
Even when I’ve known breakup “on the grounds of incompatibility” is a crock because…